Nobody likes going through a break up. A break up can make you feel betrayed. It hurts and often takes a long time to get over. A break up is especially bad if it comes as a surprise. This often leaves a person confused. So how can an individual recognize if the relationship they're in is close to end? There are clues you can look for. These often involve a change in behavior being exhibited by your spouse.
Here are some common signs that your relationship could even be coming to an end:
1. Is your partner avoiding your calls?.
This a serious clue to understanding why your relationship might be coming to an end. Let's face it, when you don't answer your cell phone it is probably because you do not want to talk to that person or organization. So why would your spouse not answer your phone call? It could be they are romantically involved with somebody else.
2. Has your partner become less romantic?.
Of course when you are lying in bed with your significant other, and they are not romantically inclined then it is a definite sign to the beginning of the end to your relationship. This is especially evident when there a general lack of foreplay. More so when it becomes a usual occurrence and partner always makes excuses.
3. Is your partner spending longer time with friends?.
There is nothing wrong when your spouse spends time with their friends. This is their play time. However, when they spend more time with friends than with you then it is a bad sign for your relationship as this a place where they can meet other people of the opposite sex. If she or he's spending longer than usual with friends this might be a really strong clue to the top of your relationship.
4. You regularly get into arguments with your partner.
These situation often means much bigger problems are the basic cause. It is alright to debate things with your partner. Sometimes there will be anger in the discussion. However, an honest relationship will forgive and be capable of compromise. But if you and your spouse always argue over trivial things then you're heading for a possible separation.
5. Has your partner suddenly changed?.
Yes, did you notice that he no longer cares for you like he used to, he's now always finding faults with you. She no longer does those little things that make you happy rather she now bickers and nags you. This might just be a sign that he/she is no longer interested in the relationship however not that some people tend to withdraw and keep more to themselves when they are disinterested in a relationship, so you just have to be certain of what action your partner is taking before you react.
Understanding your relationship with someone is not easy and being in a relationship is never an easy thing. However, that relationship is worth keeping and it would take a lot of effort to keep it. The first thing you want to develop may be a friendship before you become romantically involved. But when you feel like you don't understand your place in the relationship, it is good to talk to your partner, so that even if a break up is inevitable then it would be done amiably.
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